Learning about North Korean society and history from a South Korean perspective showed a certain level of empathy and sadness that is not touched from the perspective from any other country.
Published:
Tuesday, 04 Mar 2025 Author:
Alissa Teall
While studying abroad in South Korea, I took a break from finance to learn more about North Korean society and politics from a country much closer to the source. This provided the opportunity to learn about North Korea from a different perceptive and talk to people high up in the South Korean government who oversee making decisions related to North Korea. When learning about North Korea from an American point of view, the angle is almost always that they are evil, and this is supported by how North Korean’s are portrayed in films as well. However, learning about North Korean society and history from a South Korean perspective showed a certain level of empathy and sadness that is not touched from the perspective from any other country.
I learned a lot from Korean culture, some that I may bring back to the U.S. and much that is just unique to that region. Since Korean culture is still very much influenced by Confucian ideals, they focus much more on the collective rather than the individual. I learned that it is simply the standard to wear very neutral clothes that blend in with what everyone else is wearing. There are no pops of color in people’s clothes or cars, but the shops and big pop-ups are very colorful and grand. Additionally, the directness that many of us are used to is not accepted in South Korea. Communication is mostly indirect, so this is a skill that I have developed quite a lot. I will miss the quietness and respect that is always present in public, especially on public transportation, but not the lack of comradery, even though that is very much an American trait.
If I were to “bust a myth” it would be that South Korean cafes have good food. Everyone always talks about all of the Korean cafes, but they are mainly for looks or to study in because the pastries are not very good. However, this is made up for by the cute themes and amazing views. However, it is true that there is a coffee shop on every corner, and they are about $2 for a drink.
In the end, I learned a lot from my time in South Korea and hope to return someday.